The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon
The relationship between Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby has for many years been regarded as a source of amusement and especially to those who have never experienced the benefits of such a union. It’s true to say, everyone enjoys being spoiled and pampered, but is the age gap also an important part of the package?
It is a fact that many young men, on reaching the age when pubescence takes over from lateral thinking, will often fantasize about older women who could be twice their own age and upwards. For example, it is quite common for a young male still at school to have the ‘hots’ for one or more of their female teachers, a neighbour’s wife or even a friend’s mother.
Experts agree that this attraction to the more mature woman is based around his belief that she not only has experience.. and a working knowledge of the male anatomy, but also a sexual prowess not to be discovered so easily in a younger woman of his own age. Although exceptions can be made, in most situations, his secret lusting will remain just that, and will go unnoticed by the older female who simply regards him as her young student or a friend of her son.
However, as the young male becomes adult, and gains his own experience of the opposite sex, so his desire for the maturer female will wane, being more attracted to his own age group and on reaching middle age, will frequently have his head ‘turned’ by a much younger woman.
All this appears in stark contrast to the attraction patterns noted in the female of the species. Whereas the young girl, becoming aware of her sexuality, will hone her intimacy skills on the ‘same age’ male, but will typically be less interested in him as she becomes older, turning her attention to the more mature males that cross her path. But why should this be the case?
The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon, whilst often being the source of amusement for many, can in fact develop into a powerful relationship, with loyalty, romance and chivalry being important factors in the union. Many women note that a male her own age or younger, will not display the same level of respect, or pay attention to detail as his older counterpart will be more inclined to do.
It is a valid point that most women are more mature than men at any given age, so it’s not surprising that by the time she reaches her mid-thirties, she already feels more compatible with a male ten or even twenty years her senior, and has left the guys her own age behind both mentally and emotionally, the older guy being better equipped to seduce her mind as well as her body. Less afraid of displaying public affection, holding her hand or opening doors for her, he is happy to allow the whole world witness his pride in having her by her side.
Sexually too, although he may not be an athlete between the sheets, the mature male will feel the need to ensure his partner is pleasured well as a priority over seeking to satisfy his own desires. Her younger lover would no doubt give her “the best seventeen seconds she’s ever had”, before raiding her fridge in search of a beer. In the case of her older lover, the foreplay will often begin in the restaurant with flirting, eye contact, teasing and laughter. Later she will enjoy the afterglow in his arms, the passion subsided yet the emotion still very much alive.
The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon was first recognised in early 1920′s and ‘sugar daddy’ is described in the WordWeb Dictionary as “A wealthy older man who offers a young person expensive gifts in return for friendship or intimacy”. The ‘sugar’ alluding to the sweetening role of the gifts, and ‘daddy’ marking the age difference between the pair. However, there is no mention of love, romance or indeed a relationship in the dictionary description, and yet it is a fact that women are very often attracted, even turned on by men of substance or power. Is it therefore so inconceivable that a younger woman could find true happiness in a relationship with a guy old enough to be her father, who has so much more to offer her than simply money and gifts? Since the 1920′s The Sugar Daddy Phenomenon has become much more commonplace and respectably accepted in society.
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